I feel subtly different,” he says. “I don’t know what it is, but it’s nicer. It was a lovely, very moving day. I was most moved by the notion of our families coming together. My brother said it’s the best wedding he’s ever been to. It was amazing to think that our families were so completely at ease with the whole idea of a gay wedding. And then there was the incredible irony that it took place in Middle Temple underneath a portrait of Sir Edward Carson, the man who prosecuted Oscar Wilde. So when I did my little speech the first thing I did was flick him two fingers. ‘This one’s for Oscar.’